You can name what’s wrong with you in seconds. Asked what you admire in yourself, you go quiet. The critic has a much bigger vocabulary than the ally.
“What would you have me know about what I actually admire in myself?”
Some additional insights around this question:
- What do you genuinely respect about who you are?
- Why is it so much harder to say than the criticism?
- What would it feel like to know your own worth out loud?
