You are a good giver. Ferociously good. Receiving is a different muscle and you have not been training it.
“What would you have me know about how to receive more openly?”
Some additional insights around this question:
- When was the last time you let someone give you something without repaying it?
- What does receiving feel like in your body — and why is it uncomfortable?
- What are you refusing right now that someone is trying to give you?