Strip away the story of what you should have done. Look at the life in front of you and ask what you’d actually choose, knowing what you know now.
“What would you have me know about what I’d choose if I chose on purpose?”
Some additional insights around this question:
- What in your life would you choose again without hesitation?
- What are you keeping only out of habit or fear?
- What would a chosen life — not a defaulted one — look like?
