You need help, or want something, and you’ve decided it’s easier to go without than to ask. Self-sufficiency has become a wall, not a strength.
“What would you have me know about the help I refuse to ask for?”
Some additional insights around this question:
- What do you need right now that you haven’t asked for?
- What does asking make you feel about yourself?
- Who might actually want to give it, if you let them?