You judge a past self harshly for a choice she made. You use everything you know now to convict someone who didn’t know it yet.
“What would you have me know about the younger me I keep blaming?”
Some additional insights around this question:
- What choice of hers do you still hold against her?
- What did she actually have to work with at the time?
- What would you say to her if she were sitting across from you?